For hundreds of years, we have been taught that being an apprentice is a precondition to becoming a master at anything.
Nowadays, however, we tend to look down on people who seek mentorship from those who produce superior life results.
Outside of business, we, as a society, still treat people who seek help as if they are broken commodities.
A poor-performing student who invests in private tutoring is viewed as stupid; a grieving person who has a therapist is viewed as weak; an obese person who gets a personal trainer is considered to be undisciplined because they can’t lose weight alone.
People rather “figure it out for themselves” instead of reaching out to a teacher who can show them a few tricks here and there to solve their problem more effectively.
Through my blog, I met many individuals who managed to architect and live extraordinary lives with extraordinary relationships, and one of the surprising commonalities among couples who produced spectacular romantic results was that they were surrounded by one or multiple mentors or romantic counselors.
They did so because they understood one important truth: Love is a team sport.
Intimacy ensues if two people have the right
But how does one learn what the right romantic patterns are?
My answer; Learn from masters who dedicated their lives to the deconstruction of this psychic phenomenon.
One of those mentors that I want to introduce to you right now is Claudia Soul.
Claudia Soul is an Australian behaviorist, a self-help author, and psychotherapist who dedicated her life to the investigation of the human condition and she has helped countless individuals to live more meaningful lives and better relationships.
Claudia and I had many insightful conversations over the last year about what love is, what it isn’t, and how one can heal a broken heart.
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